Thanks everyone. The Bo was huge money(maintenance and getting it up to standards), and selling it was both a relief and painful. So I am taking my next purchase slow and making sure I dont repeat my mistakes.
I like space over speed, so thats why the Cardinal, Sierra and Commander on my radar. The 182 would work too, but I like gear goes up and gear goes down a lot.
I am not petite, and I like not cramming passengers into a small metal tube, so another win for space.
I take 4-5 longer trips a year, so I wont say no to a io-540 up front. But gotta figure out what that means and what to look for when shopping.
I am familiar with 177's, 182's, Sierra's. never looked at Commanders, so I dont know what I dont know yet.
Long post short, thanks everyone, and I am researching like crazy.